The DOs and DON'Ts of Freecycle



Internet, I love me some Freecycle. It's a fantastic way to responsibly get rid of things you no longer need and pick up things you can use for free. From their website:
The Freecycle Network™ is made up of 4,982 groups with 8,753,948 members around the world. It's a grassroots and entirely nonprofit movement of people who are giving (and getting) stuff for free in their own towns. It's all about reuse and keeping good stuff out of landfills. Each local group is moderated by local volunteers (them's good people). Membership is free.
Once you've joined your local Freecycle chapter, you'll have access to a list of posts by your fellow members either OFFERing an item or asking for an item they WANT, and other users can respond to either claim the offer or fulfill the want. Generally, the person offering the item will give their address and leave the item on their porch or doorstep for the recipient (known as "Porch Pickup" or "PPU"), but many Freecyclers prefer to meet in a public place instead.

Free Sign
Despite all its benefits, Freecycle and I have a love/hate relationship. Sometimes my fellow Freecyclers do such ridiculous things that I feel I'd rather bag up all of my unwanted items and leave them out for the trash instead. Of course, I'd never do something so wasteful, but I've been close!

In the 4+ years I've been Freecycling, I've met a lot of "Dream Freecyclers" - people who are so courteous and awesome to deal with that I will always give them first dibs on an item that I'm giving away. I also have built a "Black List" of people who are so rude and troublesome that their emails get filtered directly into the trash.


The DOs and DON'Ts


The only hard and fast rule of Freecycle is that everything must be truly free, legal and appropriate for all ages. However, there are some unwritten rules that most members (the successful ones, anyway) abide by. These are some DOs and DON'Ts that will make your experience be as awesome as possible.

DON'T forget your manners. People will respond infinitely more positively to people who are polite than to people who aren't. Make liberal use of please and thank you when appropriate.

DO give thorough descriptions. Don't put someone in the awkward position of driving all the way to your home only to have to refuse an item because it's not what they thought, or worse, to take it anyway and then pitch it. Likewise, if you're posting a WANT be specific or you'll get offers for a lot of junk. List sizes, colors, condition and anything else that helps paint an accurate picture of your item.

"BAG OF SHOES" = BAD
"10 pairs of ladies' shoes, size 8.5" = BETTER
Describe each and if they'd look good on a leggy redhead = Extra Credit ;)

DON'T ask people to call you. Please, people, PLEASE stop giving me your phone numbers. When dealing on the internet, I don't want to have to make phone calls. I've gotten many responses to my Freecycle posts that just say "555-555-1234 call me". Uh...no. If you're going to use Freecycle, plan to communicate via email.

DO include all the necessary info in one email. "Is this still available?" or "I would like this" are not good responses to a an offer. You are invariably making the exchange of emails twice as long as it needs to be. Assume it is available and include all of the information necessary to seal the deal in as few emails as possible.

"Hi, is your toaster still available? I would love to pick it up Tuesday between 5 and 6pm. If this is ok, I'll just need your address. Thanks!" This is ideal because it limits the correspondence to only two emails — your request and their response.

DON'T ask someone to give you directions. Expect to be given an address. This is the internet. Familiarize yourself with Google Maps. It will make your life easier, I promise. I give crap directions and if you ask for them you will end up in a cornfield on the wrong side of town.

DO fess up if you plan to sell the items you're receiving. Some people make some or all of their income from selling used items at flea markets or on eBay, and that's cool (I come from a long line of flea-marketers) but the proper etiquette is to be up front about it, and let people decide if they're OK with you profiting from their charity. Most people won't mind (I don't) and will appreciate your honesty.

Free Banana

DON'T be greedy. I had some yard sale leftovers and I listed eleven items to give away. One person responded to nine of my eleven posts with the same one-liner in each email, "WILL TAKE THIS CAN PICK UP TOM." Oh no you won't, and who the eff is Tom? I waited for other people to respond and gave them first pick. When I told this person that they could have only two of the items, they never responded. Sigh.

DO show up when you say you will. This should go without saying, but pick up when you say you will or send an email to explain and reschedule when you don't. No-Shows who don't contact me go straight to the Black List. On the other hand, I may give precedence to Freecyclers who I know are reliable.

DON'T take things that aren't meant for you. Because we don't take things that aren't ours, right? RIGHT? Things can get a little confusing when someone offers multiple items to multiple people for pickup on the same day. If you're not sure if something is meant for you, ask first. If you're giving things away, put the recipient's name (first only) right on the item to eliminate any confusion.

DO pick the best recipient. You are not obligated to give your items to the first person who responds. You can give them to the person with the longest name or the best grammar or whatever criteria you want. It's your stuff. Sometimes I give my items to the person I perceive as more in-need. If I'm giving away office supplies and you're a school teacher or someone starting a new business, you'll probably win. I'm certainly not encouraging you to invent a sad story to get more stuff, but if it's true and you think it's relevant, it's ok to include those things in your email. Give your items to whomever you feel best about.

Free Hugs!
DON'T get disheartened. If you Freecycle enough, you will inevitably run into a few bad apples. I've met my share of rude, dishonest and inconsiderate people. However, on the whole Freecyclers are kind and generous, and really just want to help their fellow Freecyclers.

DO pay it forward. Don't just grab up all the offers. I like to peruse the WANTED posts to see if someone needs something that I might have collecting dust in a closet. When you buy a new widget, consider offering your old widget on Freecycle. You might make someone's day.

Friday Linkage: End of Summer Sadface Edition

It done got cold, y'all. It's pretty evident that summer is leaving us, and I'm not happy about it. I wore a sweater to work today. A sweater. I need about 6 more weeks of summer. Someone call the groundhog and tell him we're expanding his job description.

Bleh. But anyway, LINKS!



I am fascinated by tiny houses! While not really a house, this gent outfitted a dumpster as a living space and it's pretty impressive.

In the Heavy But Important Reading department, this woman's story of attempting to fly on 9/11 is shocking: Racially profiled and cuffed in Detroit.

Food for thought: What if solar energy got the same government subsidies as fossil fuels.

Every time I make a pilgrimage to Ye Olde Liquor Store, I have the same dilemma: Vodka or Wine? Praise the heavens, Absolut has solved this problem by combining the two. Oh. Hell. Yes.

My Little Pony Pop Icons. GUYS, SHE MADE STARBUCK FROM BATTLESTAR GALACTICA! My brain may explode. via Design Milk

Rowdy Kittens is talking about participating in a move by bike. Talk about camaraderie and all sorts of feel-good warm fuzzies!

What teachers really want to tell parents. I've heard similar from friends who are teachers, and as someone who may eventually decide to make a person, this makes me consider some things I'd like to avoid.

Bam.

'Tis the Season

This post is kind of a downer. If you're not up for that this morning, here is an enchanting fairy tale featuring adorable anthropomorphic teeth instead.

I periodically get this feeling. I've tried to explain it to several people and they inevitably tell me that it sounds like deja vu, but I think that's not really correct. I've had deja vu. This is different. It's not so much the rememberance of a moment as a sudden want for a specific moment. The best way I can manage to phrase it is a spontaneous yearning.



This morning it was Christmas. I was reading something – a blog post or something – completely unrelated to Christmas. There was absolutely no reason for it. I just had a sudden, overwhelming yearning for Christmas. Not just any Christmas, but Christmas the way I used to spend it with my family when I was little. The ugly brown carpet in the living room with the old plaid sofa and the fake tree that Mom lovingly fluffed back to respectability every year. The piano along the wall, stockings hung from the little knobs on the fallboard. My Mom, Dad and Grandma drinking coffee and smiling while I laid waste to a pile of presents.

The thing is, I don't even like Christmas. I don't enjoy the shopping or the general franticness of it all. I don't go in for Christmas movies or Christmas carols. In fact I usually can't wait for it all to be over. I'm kind of a scrooge.


But this morning, just for a brief moment, I desperately wanted Christmas. And then I was bummed, because I'll never have a Christmas like that again. The ugly brown carpet, the old plaid sofa and the fake tree are all long gone.

Maybe it's because I haven't had a Christmas tree the last several years, so it never really felt like Christmas at all and I was able to mostly ignore the entire holiday. CB and I justified not getting a tree because we're never actually home on Christmas anyway, but really it's because we couldn't afford it. I'm going to start saving now, and maybe by Christmas we can buy an ugly fake tree of our own.


Have you ever had that feeling? The spontaneous want of something you can't go back to? What was it?

Friday Linkage - Hairy Space Knives Edition




Eat the Damn Cake talks about why women aren't supposed to have pubic hair. I think you should shape your topiary in whatever way makes you happy, but obviously some people disagree :/

Ikea Expedit bookshelf turned into a room divider/doorway-shelf-thing. I own one, and I'm so stealing this idea if I ever move into a place where it would work.

This is one way to get your money from clients that won't pay. I cheered inside a bit.

OMG OMG OMG QUINOA CAKES!

The India-Pakistan border, from space. Beautiful.

Dr. House is putting out a blues album. I'ma buy it.

Jamie Oliver talks knife skills. Useful!

How to put together the ultimate minimalist survival kit

As I mentioned previously, I have an obsession with survival gear. Maybe it's from camping as a kid or maybe it's some deep-seeded need to over prepare for the worst. Whatever. I love survival supplies. I also love carrying as little as is necessary to get the job done.

This list of 12 items will get you through a disaster, zombie apocalypse, alien invasion, visit from your in-laws, or any other emergency that requires you to evacuate your home and go on the move. I made this list with myself and Chef Boyfriend in mind, so it assumes two people who are willing to share/snuggle and obviously your mileage may vary depending on your situation.

This whole list will run you just under $500 and will fit in a large Rubbermaid tub. That sounds pricey, but remember that this list is assuming you need to leave your home on short notice, and carry only these items with you. This is for major bad stuff, friends.

Food



Emergency Survival Food Supply 200 Servings

Food will naturally be your first concern in an emergency. Girls' gotta eat, yo. You're going to need to keep your energy up, and while it may not be health food, these rations will keep you running in a pinch. Supplement this with things like canned vegetables and beans, dried rice and other things with a long shelf-life.


MSR Quick 2 System Cookset

You're going to need something to cook that grub in, and this cookset is lightweight, extremely compact and has everything you should need to cook for two (or more if people don't mind sharing plates).


GSI Outdoors Gourmet Backpack Kitchen

Again, lightweight, compact and all the basic necessities for cooking for a small group on the run. The larger pieces fold down to stow in the accessory pocket of a backpack.


Light My Fire Titanium Spork

The ultimate multitasker, the spork has long been an object of both great admiration and great frustration in office lunchrooms. This one is titanium, and as everyone knows, things made of titanium are infinitely more awesome. My emergency kit would contain only one (Chef Boyfriend and I don't mind sharing) but you should include as many as you need for your family. More inexpensive plastic versions are available, if you'd prefer quantity over durability.


Aquamira Frontier Emergency Water Filter System

This compact water filtration "straw" is compact and easy to use. There are more expensive filters available that can be attached to a water bottle, but this one will do the trick for the short-term. Each straw filters up to 20 gallons of water.

Shelter



Coleman Sundome 7-feet by 5-feet 2 Person Tent

Pretty self-explanatory. You're going to need shelter, and while it's unlikely that you'll be stuck out in the wilderness in an emergency, having a tent available certainly can't hurt.


Emergency Mylar Thermal Blanket - Pack of 10

If you're expecting to have to shelter for a long time, I'd invest in a good sleeping bag. However, for the short-term (a few weeks at a time) these blankets will do the trick.

Everything Else



Coghlans Waterproof Matches 10-pack

If the electric is out, you're going to need fire to cook and stay warm. You can never go wrong with waterproof matches, and lots of them.


Ready America Grab `N Go Deluxe 4 Person Backpack

This kit contains enough first aid and basic survival gear for 4 people for 3 days. If you can only grab one thing to take with you, this pack is probably the item that will serve you best. It contains emergency food, water, first aid supplies, flashlight, am/fm radio and dozens of other useful goodies.


Wind 'N Go Mini LED Lantern

Fuel or batteries may be scarce, so a windup lantern is a great idea. This one claims to yield one hour of power for one minute of winding. Many other models are available with more bells and whistles, like radio or cellphone charging.


Leatherman Super Tool-300 Multitool

My dad had a Leatherman, and dude, these things are so cool. It's like a Swiss Army knife + toolset. The uses are too numerous to list and it fits in a pocket.


Full Tang Tanto Hunting Knife W/ Fire Starter

Because an emergency is a great excuse to play Rambo. There are plenty of reasons why you might need a good knife, and this one comes with a fire starter for when you run out of waterproof matches. Plus, you'll look like a badass with this on your belt.

Extra Credit: If your take on survival is a little less Swiss Family Robinson and a little more Zombieland, here are instructions for building the Ultimate Survival Shotgun. Not to sound like some kind of creepy artilary enthusiast, but this thing is intense (and more than a little sexy).

Friday Linkage - We Will Rebuild Edition



Hello, friends! A hurricane and an earthquake all in one week! I don't know about you, but I'm exhausted. I may need a nap or four. Also, I really, really like naps, so you know... whatever excuse I can get.

In a speech at Southern Methodist University law school, Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, women's rights superhero and former ACLU civil rights attorney says of her Senate confirmation: “Today, my ACLU connection would probably disqualify me.”

These are HANDS-DOWN the most awesome engagement photos I've ever seen. Also, cute couple!

As the sweet potato is my favorite root vegetable, I feel obliged to make and then lay waste to a massive amount of this sweet potato hummus.

How to Learn a Foreign Language Without Spending a Cent may just be the kick in the pants that I needed to finally begin learning Spanish. Who's monolingual anymore? Oh, right ME THAT'S WHO :/

Remember how I mentioned my obsession with survival gear? The Art of Manliness shows us how to build the Ultimate Survival Shotgun and my heart just skipped a beat.


Alas, I too suffer from Chronic Bitchface.

And, finally...